#VBGIVESBACK: Danika Charity
August 1, 2016
Where did the idea for Alliance of Moms come from?
The five founders were in a mommy and me group together when our babies were just a few months old. We learned about the Alliance for Children’s Rights and their Pregnant and Parenting Teen program through one of our founders, Yasmine. Having initially bonded over all the challenges we faced as new parents we knew that we had to find a way to rally our friends and resources behind these teen moms who faced the same challenges without the resources or support.
Why is it important to provide this support to young girls and women in the foster care system?
75% of girls in foster care are pregnant by the age of 21 and chances are 40% of their children will end up entering the foster care system in the first years of life. Like most of the mothers you know, these girls really want the best for their kids; but not having had adequate role models or the support they need, breaking this cycle is not an easy feat. If we can provide them with this supportive community and some of the resources that have been afforded us, I know we can have a lasting impact on so many of their lives.
“I watched my mom fight hard to make sure my brother and I had adifferent life than her own and I know that’s why I’m doing what Iam today.”
What was life like for you growing up and how did your experiencehaving a single teenage mother impact your views of motherhood andinfluence your work with Alliance of Moms?
My mother was 1 of 7, 5 of whom were teenage moms. Iremember life being pretty crazy growing up. There were always lots of people
around, we moved constantly. I lived in over 19 places by the time I was 5
years old. It wasn’t until I moved away from home at 16 that I realized that
maybe this wasn't so normal. I got to see the breaking of a cycle first hand. I
watched my mom fight hard to make sure my brother and I had a different life
than her own and I know that’s why I’m doing what I am today.
Tell us more about your "mothership" organization the Alliance for Children’s Rights and how you work together.
Alliance of Moms is an auxiliary of the Alliance for
Children’s Rights. The Alliance for Children’s Rights is an incredible LA based
non-profit that advocates for children and youth in foster care. Together we’re
launching the Healthy Teen Families Program where pregnant and parenting teens
will be offered comprehensive wrap around services ranging from legal advocacy,
educational and housing support to doulas services, parenting education and
What types of resources does Alliance of Moms provide young parents?
We offer Raising Foodies, a healthy cooking class at a local
group home, Mama + Babe classes in partnership with Loom where we cover topics
ranging from infant massage to prenatal self-care to infant feeding. Our
flagship event Raising Baby, which is coming up in September, brings 100 pregnant and parenting foster youth and
their children together to participate in a day of parenting workshops focused
primarily on early brain development. We bring in experts to lead the workshops
and Alliance of Moms member volunteers provide childcare so young parents can
focus on the workshops. We’re also developing a mentoring program which will
partner AOM members with pregnant and parenting foster youth.
Tell us more about the Raising Baby workshops, what do these focus on?
We now know that 80% of the brain is formed by the age of 3 and that by that age children from low income families also hear 30 million fewer words than those from more advantaged backgrounds. These workshops focus on sleep and early attachment, talking, reading and singing to your baby and the role of music in early brain development.
What have you learned about motherhood from the young parents you’ve worked with through Alliance of Moms?
I recently sat in a room of pregnant teens as we talked about self-care, what it is and why it’s important. It’s so rare for them to sit around and talk about pregnancy and parenting with their peers. The support and encouragement they offer each other in these moments is so inspiring. They really rally around each other and cheer each other on. We can all learn something from these girls. As moms it’s our responsibility to support other moms, to build each other up and support each other no matter what we are going through or where we have come from.
What are your hopes for the future of Alliance of Moms?
I hope that awareness continues to be raised for this very vulnerable population and that we will continue to expand our programs so that all pregnant and parenting foster youth in LA are able to access the support offered by our incredible members and network of experts.
Describe motherhood in three words:
Everything. Always. Forever
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